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Thank You Toasts: What to Say and How to Say It

When you raise your glass to toast someone, it’s not just a social gesture, it’s a meaningful way to show appreciation, honor achievements, and celebrate special occasions. Whether you’re at a wedding, a dinner party, or a casual gathering, toasting is a timeless tradition. In this post, we walk through what a toast is, how […]

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Have you ever been in the final moments of preparing for a gathering, only to hear a knock at the door 30 minutes early? Maybe you’re still lighting candles, adjusting the table settings, or taking a deep breath before the festivities begin—only to find yourself scrambling to entertain a guest who has arrived before you […]

Have you ever quietly slipped out of a party without saying goodbye? The music is playing, conversations are flowing, and instead of interrupting the moment with a round of farewells, you simply grab your coat and disappear. No fuss, no fanfare—just a smooth, seamless exit. If so, you’ve committed an Irish exit. In my Irish […]

In our fast-paced world, where efficiency often trumps sentiment, it’s easy to underestimate the profound impact of small gestures. Yet, these seemingly simple acts—offering a kind word, holding a door open, or sending a handwritten note—can create a ripple effect of warmth and connection. They not only brighten someone else’s day but also cultivate an […]

In today’s fast-paced business world, building genuine relationships grounded in integrity is more important than ever. Authentic connections not only foster trust but also pave the way for long-term success and fulfillment. Whether you’re networking, collaborating with colleagues, or working with clients, prioritizing honesty, kindness, and authenticity will always lead to stronger, more meaningful professional […]

When you raise your glass to toast someone, it’s not just a social gesture, it’s a meaningful way to show appreciation, honor achievements, and celebrate special occasions. Whether you’re at a wedding, a dinner party, or a casual gathering, toasting is a timeless tradition. In this post, we walk through what a toast is, how […]

Dining out is not just about the food but also about connecting with those you are dining with and appreciating the dining experience and establishment. One often confusing detail in restaurant etiquette is where to place your handbag. Whether you’re at a casual café or an upscale restaurant, knowing what to do with your purse […]

Alison Cheperdak smiling while seated at an outdoor restaurant table, practicing dining etiquette with a plate of grilled salmon, asparagus, and lemon in front of her.